A lot of people began 2012 with a resolution, lose weight, start exercising, eat right etc. etc. etc. Usually about three weeks into January those resolutions are just a memory. I don't want that to be the case with me.
I want to implement some real personal changes in my life this year. One of those is to take action to make my marriage better. My husband and I don't have any major problems, I feel the monotony of daily life has gotten to us though. I think we neglect "us" as a couple. We need a boost. We also need to improve our communication. We need to put some time and effort into our marital relationship. As Mahatma Ghandi once said - "You must be the change you want to see." That's what I'm going to do.
I decided to take those words to heart and embark on a 40 day journey called The Love Dare. Based on the book "
The Love Dare" by Alex Kendrick. The book is based on biblical and Christian principles and takes you through 40 daily dares. The dares are done without your husband or wife's knowledge, they aren't to know you are doing this. These dares challenge you personally to take some action daily to improve your marriage.
I will post a very brief statement daily so you know what the goal of the day is and post the daily dare. I encourage you however to purchase the book so you get the commentary that supports each day's dare. I also invite you to embark on this journey with me. Change starts today.
Day 1
Love is Patient
Dare
Say nothing negative to your spouse today. If the urge arises, choose to say nothing.
Follow-up comments
Although this dare might have been a disaster on other days, today went surprisingly smooth and I was able to get through the day without saying anything negative to my husband. How did you do?
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